The first frame of indie-porn director Erika Lust's new sex documentary, Soulsex, shows two clasped hands; one is amply freckled, and the other appears soft and delicate.
So many of us have these anxieties about our bodies, and I think watching people onscreen who are strong in their sexuality and personality can help us find more confidence.
Television sex scenes tend to feature teenagers and twentysomethings — an exception being Grace and Frankie, a show that broke ground by focusing on the dating lives of two single women in their 70s — and pornography is similarly youth-obsessed.